One of the best parts about being a girl (well except for lesbians) is sucking dick. I know that this may be a crazy thought for a lot of people out there but that’s just because you haven’t yet realize the fun and reward for yourself in doing it. This stems mainly from the simple fact that – you don’t know how to do it right. Yes, there is a right way and a wrong way to suck cock – if you don’t do it the right way your man’s cock doesn’t get hard and he won’t cum which means no return favor for you. Not being able to get your man hard or anyone for that matter when you are trying to is a downer. So to get past this and really realize how good you can become an amazing cock sucker I’ve set out some tips for you all.

The best part about sucking a cock is that you can do it anywhere – you don’t need to anything other than a dick and your open mouth to get the action on. Finding the dick to suck is up to you but once you have it in front of you – well almost - that’s where I can help. The best blow jobs are blow jobs without borders I like to call them – they are unexpected and unplanned – don’t wait for the guy to ask you or move your head down to their dick as they so often do. Grab life by the balls literally and smoke that pole!

It’s just you and him ( I recommend only one dick at a time to start with – cockfests and orgies, threesomes, etc are only rewarding once you master cock sucking one-on-in), slowly move down in between his legs (can be lying or sitting but easiest on you if he’s sitting) and kiss him gently along his ‘treasure trail’. Run your hands along his inner thighs without touching his cock, this builds up the anticipation. Only do this for a minute or two though because you don’t want to be a cocktease. Next grab his dick from the outside of his pants – it should be almost fully hard at this point. Rub firmly but gently to get him a bit harder. Open his pants and touch his dick firmly and pull it out. Careful for zippers cuz nothing spoils the mood like a dick caught in a zipper.

Take his cock out with your hand and look at it like it’s the one favorite thing you love to have in your mouth more than anything. Now look at your man with that same look. Now you may think that you should go straight for the cock but one important rule to remember besides No Teeth is Never Neglect the Balls. Pull his balls, nuts or whatever you want to call them out and cup them in the palm of your hand and massage them around while you give the blowjob. Forget completely that you even have a second hand and keep them attached to his balls. Now that his cock and balls are out you’re ready to start the blow job.

I suggest you put the dick in the hand that you write with as you have more strength in that side so you’ll go longer. Take your hand and grip the shaft of his cock firmly cuz it ain’t gonna break. Slide your hand up and down his shaft a few times to get it harder and make sure that while you do this you keep looking at your man in the eye. Now lick your lips and wet them and move your mouth close to the head of his cock – lick it quickly and than move back and repeat. As an option you can blow lightly on the head of his cock because the mix of hot air and coolness will give him a totally different sensation. The head of the penis is the most sensitive part of his dick and the change in sensation is good for him.

Now, take your tongue and starting from his perineum, gooch, taint, chode whatever you want to call it but it’s the space in between his balls and his asshole. Lick the big vein on the underside of his penis all the way to the tip of his head. Once you’re at the tip of his cock there’s a little piece that looks like it’s divided with a ridge around it – circumcised and not men all got this if they don’t it’s a dildo and a bad one at that!) and on the underside of that you want to flick your tongue as it is super sensitive. Put his cock in your mouth but just the head piece and put your lips together so it is tight and swirl your tongue around the head of his dick making sure to flick under that area.

Take his whole shaft into your mouth; if you can’t do that yet just tell your man he’s too big to go all the way down for you. They’ll appreciate that. While his cock is in your mouth look up at him and bring the shaft slowly in and out of your mouth but always leaving the head of his penis in your mouth. Hint: Breathe through your nose and out through your mouth or you could end up choking on fluids. Now with your hand firmly grip the bottom of his wet penis like you are holding onto a handlebar but sideways and make sure that your thumb is over your fingers. If they won’t go around it than lucky you! Grip it with pressure it won’t break and when it’s hard it takes a lot more to hurt it. If you go to hard your man will let you know. Now with your mouth on the tip of his head close your mouth tightly but mind your teeth and from this point on breathe only through your nose you don’t want to lose the grip. If that’s too much for you just swap off your mouth for a few seconds than go back every few minutes.

Now that you have his cock in your mouth, balls in one hand and a firm grip on the base of his shaft you’re ready to go. With an upward and twisting movement in synch with your mouth go up and down his shaft making sure to go over the ridge in the head of his penis with your hand. This should be a fluid movement between your hand and your mouth. Your mouth and hand should be going up and over the head of the penis and back down right after each other and can even touch at the same time. Don’t move your hand past the head of the penis, so stop when your pinky and ring finger are at the head of his dick. Repeat this and make sure to make noises that you’re enjoying it a groan or moan or even play with yourself a bit so he can see. At this point you don’t need to make continual eye contact just make sure that you look up every so often so he can see you rather than the top of your head.

Now, that may be a lot going on but back to the rule of Never Neglect the Balls. With your hand massage his balls and if he starts cumming to fast tug on his balls gently with a downward motion this will stop that. When a guy cums and is about to blow his load his balls start to go up. If you have nails you can trace them along his balls as well. Now take some time and put your mouth around his balls. Remember these are more sensitive that his dick so watch the teeth and how much pressure you put on them. But even a few licks down there in between sucking his cock feels good. Where his taint is if you apply pressure to perform ‘naughty knees’ where you bend your first two finger down to look like kneeling fingers and press them firmly and upward on his taint he’ll like it. A man’s G-Spot gland is in his colon. Yes, his ass so for those who know that their man wouldn’t mind trying a little something you can tickle his asshole with your fingers after the naughty knees and probe him a little with your fingers.

Once your guy is ready to cum you’ll feel his shaft start to throb a bit with your mouth. Keep your mouth around his dick and as he blows his load suck back as much of his cum (yes semen, jizz, sperm, spunk whatever you want to call it) as you can and suck it out like it’s a milkshake. You won’t choke it’s only about 1 tablespoon or 2 full. There really is no other way but swallowing it while you’re looking at your man. If you don’t want to swallow have a little cup or something that you can put it into without being obvious. If you want your man to go down on you and you cum you don’t want to see him spit it out or have a disgusted look on your face that ruins the mood.

Now, funky spunk that’s a whole other scenario – funky spunk is cum that doesn’t taste quite right. This is normally caused by the foods that your man has been eating so if you plan on giving him a blow job make sure at dinner to avoid spicy foods, garlic, asparagus or onions. My simple rule of thumb is if it makes your breath stink it’ll make your spunk a little funky. This goes for girls and guys.

Another option if you don’t want to swallow or spit out the cum is to let his cum flow into your mouth and have it drip down your chin. This can be really exciting for some guys. Think back to the porn movies where the girl has the glistening face full of white cum dripping down her chin.

The biggest thing to remember when sucking cock and to enjoy it is to actually enjoy doing it. If you’re not sure what your man likes yet ask questions like ‘Like this baby?’ or ‘Show me how you want it’. Watching a guy jerk off can give you tips on how he likes his cock touched too. Remember each man is different. Don’t act like it’s something you don’t like to do and are doing them a favor by sucking their cock. It is something that will better not only his sex life but your sex life. Once you suck his dick amazingly the first time he will treat your pussy same way. You’ll have the best sex ever because he’ll want to make sure you keep cumming back to suck his dick. Whether he licks your pussy or simply fucks the shit out of it you’ll soon learn to enjoy blow jobs because you get it in return.

One other way you can practice for your man is by buying a dildo or vibrator in the shape of a real penis. Get one of the flesh feeling one in a decent size so it’s realistic – a plastic vibrator in the shape of a rocket doesn’t help you suck cock – go for a 6 or 7 inch size as that is the length of most guys’ dicks. And when you aren’t practicing for him you can use it on yourself just make sure to clean in between uses.